TELL TALE SIGNS OF A CHEATING SPOUSE

The following is a guide to help you determine if your mate is cheating on you. After reading this list you may find there is some area of concern. Do not confront the cheater.
This will only cause them to clean up their act and make it more difficult for you to catch them. You may not have enough proof to make your case. I would urge you to seek professional help.

• At the beginning of an affair the mate that is cheating is more attentive to his/her spouse. This is due to guilt that the cheater may be feeling at the time.
• After the affair has been going on for a while, the person cheating seems to find fault with the person he/she may be living with to try to justify the affair in their mind.
• Cheating spouses may lose interest in the activities in the home. They don’t show interest in the livelihood of you or the children that live in the home. Nor do they have any desires to do any fix-ups to the home (i.e. lawn care, house repairs, etc…)
• Intuition (gut feeling) that something is not right usually is a sign you may have a cheating problem: “when in doubt, check them out”.
• Cheaters my have a change in sex life (i.e. more sex, less sex) as well as unexplained sexual requests.
• The cheater has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home, especially the mate (i.e. “if he/she didn’t act the way they do, well then maybe I wouldn’t do the things I do”).
• Another sign could be “Finances”. “If someone wants to play they have to pay “ therefore keeping an eye on their monies( i.e. check stubs, bank account balances, credit card bills, etc…) would tell you whether their spending more money than usual.
• Grooming habits will change.